All Together Now

Right Now...

2012-01-29T13:55:00.000-08:00

I am not feeling guilty for my lack of posts. We are a busy family, and our spare time is filled with each other! If you want to catch up with us, read on... but there are no cute pics today.

We have a 6yo Josh now, who's loving Kindergarten so much, but misses full day K and his buddies in WI. He is a spelling and writing machine and it's fun to play word/letter games with him! He has also shown incredible patience for a little sister who can make bedtime pretty miserable by keeping him up later with her mischievousness!

Speaking of Layla, she is such a fun, silly, beautiful, tricky, loving little girl. Basically, she's a typical 2yo! She is so smart, but has the same speech delay her brothers had, and we often find ourselves in frustrating situations when she so badly wants to convey her thoughts but can't. We love her like crazy!

I think that of all my kids, Jack has been the most forgiving of our new situation here. He had fallen in love with his class, teacher, and taking the bus home in WI. He was learning new things every day, and shocking us when he'd recount those things! (since he's not nearly as forthcoming as Josh) Now that we are here, preschool is not free, so not in our budget. (hello, we're building 2 business!) But NEVER has he mentioned missing school or his friends. He is so imaginative, spending his time at home building ships out of legos, intricate train tracks, and racing cars all over the place! Jack is the definition of flexible! I thank God for him and his patience every day.

We have 3 kiddos in one room, which seemed like crazy chaos for the first few weeks of moving in! But we have worked out some of those bugs, like having Jack fall asleep in our room and then transferring him later. It went from a 2.5 hour play time in the dark to 30 minutes before falling asleep! (naughty kids) But we have created some good routines, and I love hearing them play together in their close quarters.

Dan and I will be celebrating TEN YEARS being married on Wednesday, Feb 1!! Take that society with horrible divorce rates!! I love this man more than I could ever express. We have been through things that have torn other couples apart, and we came out a stronger, more faithful couple because of them. I still find him funny and SO MUCH fun to be with! My perfect evening together is the 2 of us in our PJ's, cuddled under our favorite blanket (a wedding gift from GG), watching a movie or favorite show, snacking on freshly baked chocolate chip cookies!

Did you know that you become just like the 5 people you hang around most? Well, I couldn't be luckier to have a hubby that is the #1 person I want to be around!

It is amazing how quickly we have forgotten the ways of the corporate world. What conference calls?! What district meetings? We don't miss anything about Dan's job. In fact, there was a noticeable change in Dan's health and energy level! Leaving what some consider a "secure job" to follow one's dream has it's own set of stresses, but when it's a self-made choice, they are SO much more tolerable. I couldn't be more proud of Dan for following his passion. He's the minority for sure, but our kids are learning valuable lessons right now about making goals, working through adversity, putting all of your faith in the Lord and the talents He gave you. (I'm learning these lessons as well) I LOVE having him work from home! We knew early in our marriage that being away from the person we chose to spend life with for 8-10 hrs a day was NOT part of our plan. That was just crazy and didn't make any sense to us. We feel that we are doing what we were meant to do, and that feels amazing.

I am so happy to working with my full-time Mary Kay business. (15 hrs a week is all!) I have found support in unique places, and made some life-long friends who have the same priorities and values that I do. I have met some amazing women who trust me enough to share concerns with their appearance, as well as share their friends and family with me, and am honored to get to know them on such a personal level. This company has helped me grow in areas I didn't know I lacked!

We love our new ward. One day, we hope to have a house in this same ward. Josh has requested being able to walk to school and I think that would be great! Holladay is a nice part of the valley, and we have had fun getting to know some new places that we weren't super familiar with before. We love being next to the mountains again!! They truly are a part of what makes UT our home, and it was crazy how much we missed them while we were gone. We are glad to see our family more often, even those who live out of state!

We are happy!

So there we are in a random post.

WI to UT

2011-12-04T14:25:00.000-08:00

Hello! Yes, I have been a little MIA, but that's because my time is very full of my highest priorities: family-time, time with hubby, building my Mary Kay business, transitioning to our new home, and more family-time!

But here are a few pictures from our last few weeks in WI.

(and then some after we got back to UT)

We visited Riverside Park a few times while we lived in WI, and this last time we stopped and admired the International Gardens. Lovely!

Another awesome park we frequented was Lake Park, across the Mississippi in Winona, MN. All summer, the parks and rec dept had free rentals for canoes and kayaks. The first time we took the kids, they were excited... until they realized they had to go on the water! Screams, whining, and tears. But then the promise of ice cream got us out!! Everyone had such a fun time, and yes, we ended the night with ice cream cones.

Some of our good friends asked us to puppy-sit for them while they went to the Dells for the day. WE WERE IN HEAVEN!!! This cute puppy is a teddy-bear breed, and his name was Teddy. He was so snuggly, and all of the kids (and me and Dan) fell in love with him! It was hard to give him back.

Josh and Jack (and even Layla) made some VERY good friends. I have told so many people that the kids and I were truly blessed to be a part of such a wonderful mom-kid playgroup. I made some great friends who defined unconditional support and caring, and they made our stay in WI a great experience.

And there was no way we were going to leave WI without going apple-picking!! I'm just sorry we didn't stay long enough to see all the different apples ripen so we could go again and again!

YUM!!

We were happy to have our recently-returned (from a mission) uncle Thomas come to visit us. Even though at his point we were in boxes, we still had a good time.

This was in the back of the orchard where no one was watching...

... and SO WAS THIS!!

I don't even know how many we ate just while trying to fill out little bag, but oh those apples were amazing!!

Layla was almost 2 when she had her first haircut. (just like Josh was)

Dang, this girl was calm!! Lucky me!

And the other member of our family that changed while we were in WI was our 4-Runner! After the odometer changed to 200,000 miles, it was time for a face-lift. It was perfect timing to park next to this blue one so we could get a really great before and after picture!!

Awesome job Dan!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LAYLA

Just what every girl needs: pink cars and jewelry!! Yep, I'm raising another MK consultant!

Seriously, this kid melts my heart!

This is a very rarely captured moment - all 3 kiddos smiling and looking at the camera at the same time!

"Happy Halloween!"

A while ago...

2011-09-04T18:40:00.000-07:00

(I used to blog more... HA!)

... Josh played T-Ball!

Seriously, the most handsome kid ever!

A little last-minute coaching.

And a little more...

Swing batter, S-WING!!

... heading towards 1st.

Going Home!

I. LOVE. THIS. PICTURE!

(Josh is the only little guy with a purple cap)

And to include the other 2 kids in our house, I had to include this one of Jack. I love it because it looks as though all of those amazing trees are going to pop through the window and grab Jack!! That sounds morbid now that I typed it all out.

And this beautiful girl.

Why I am proud to Be

2011-08-28T13:52:00.000-07:00

a "Goates"

I know I am also a Montague, and that also makes me so proud. But I feel the need to highlight my siblings and their amazing spouses.

(and then my own kiddos, because I am not me without them!)

Ben, Amanda, and Owen Goates

(and baby #2 due in March)

Ben and Amanda moved to Ohio a few years ago, following the promptings they felt from the Lord: no job, no school prospects... Just faith that they were doing what was right. Since then, Ben started a job he enjoys, Owen joined their family, and Amanda has been able to use her amazing degree in speech pathology while being an AMAZING mommy!

Ben just graduated from Ohio State University with his MBA!!!

Talk about following the Lord's plan and being blessed.

Jason & Jacey Goates

(aka J&J, when I mention them in emails or texts!)

It is true that one spouse cannot follow a dream without TOTAL and complete support from the other. This is exactly what has been going on with these 2 in UT. Jacey (with her mom) just successfully opened THEIR OWN dance studio!! Jacey is a wonderful dancer and instructor and loves what she does. What better way to follow your heart than to just do it full time?!

J&J, our family loves you so much and we are so excited to come and see your new studio. We are so proud of your hard, hard, physically-draining work.

Congrats!!

(click here to head to the site below and sign up!)

Jamie and Ryan (below) and Grace Turner

(baby #2 due in Feb)

So Jamie and I are 7 years apart. This was not so conducive for a close relationship when we were younger, but has made for a really special one now that we are "adults!" Jamie is considered our entire family's in-house photographer, so when she and hubby moved to NV our dinners and other activities were much less captured. She is very talented! Jamie is also a VERY patient woman, wife, and mother. She is a med-student's wife to a guy who gets crazy-high scores. Enough said!

Below is hubby, Ryan. He is not only an excellent student, but is admired for the high standards he holds himself to. At the same time as all of this greatness (!), he is the nicest guy ever, as well as the cutest dad!

(beware of cheezy picture below)

Elder Thomas Goates

(in Argentina for 10 more days)

There is nothing bad I have EVER been able to say, or even find about Tom. We all love him, miss him, pray for him, and talk about his return all the time!! Thomas is 10 years younger than me, but I have always looked up to him for his steadfastness in his testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ, and his love for the scriptures. We will are excited, and feel spoiled to get to have him all to ourselves for a few days in Sep!!

Layla

This little girl of mine is a mini-me in so many ways! Her crazy love for mischief with her brothers drives us nuts, but defines who she is: fun, silly, smart, brave, cuddly, independent, adventurous, loyal. I am proud to be her mama.

Holy cow, she is just so dang cute!!

Jack

This sweet boy of mine has done so much growing this year. Think about it - he's been in WI for 1/4 of his entire life!! Jack has this sweetness about him that makes me fall in love with him every day. He is so content with who he is at such a young age, which I know comes from a deep maturity he has inherited from his dad. He can play with the group one minute, then be just as happy doing his own imagining the next.

I just love him.

Josh

Some days I can't believe the strength my oldest child has. He has already had to learn life lessons at 5 1/2 that I didn't face until I was a few years older. I am able to have very mature, specific teaching moments with Josh, and then he RETAINS every piece of information. He has high standards for himself, though I doubt he can put them in to words yet: keeps the Sabbath Day holy (by saying 'no' to Sunday bday parties), uses appropriate language (when peers do not), enjoys being able to put aside tithing when he earns money.

I am confident in sending him off to school because I know he knows what is right.

I am blessed to be not just surrounded, but RELATED to all of these amazing individuals.

(sibs and in-laws)

**I realize that there are some people missing: my parents & hubby.**

To them I say that I love you as well.

Mom and Dad - you taught me to want to excel, be true to myself, and to hold family close.

Dan - you are my other half, and there is just too much to say in one blog post.

Happy Jack Turns 4!

2011-07-25T20:10:00.000-07:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JACK HARPER MONTAGUE!!

Really, it's pretty rare I capture this huge Jack-smile! But who wouldn't be grinning surrounded by all these gifts, cake, and family.

(including Gramma and Grampa Goates - visiting from UT)

Jack said he wanted a "red cake." So we all enjoyed a red velvet b-day cake in his honor. What mature taste for a 4-year-old!

Checking out all angles...

... got... to... get... the... last... 2... candles...

Good job, buddy! I hope your wish comes true.

It was hard to capture all the gift-opening, since it went fast and Josh was trying to do it for Jack. (as usual)

Hmm, why would Jack be opening a new helmet...

For his NEW BIKE!!!!

What a fun birthday celebration with you, Jack!!

Fun on the Fourth

2011-07-06T13:21:00.000-07:00

We began our 4th of July early with a breakfast at our ward. My kiddos were patient to wait for their pancakes, but after that was done, they were off!

I love that Josh is just in to "themes" as I am, so of course, we were all wearing the colors of the day!

BTW, this little girl of mine has charmed almost the entire ward! I have a new person each week tell me how much they would LOVE to babysit her! (brothers too, but she's doing all the PR work)

It's rare to get all 5 of us in the same shot!

(so rare, that Jack just had to cover his face just to be consistent!)

Red Rover!

Duck, Duck, Goose

(Josh is the only boy in his Primary class, and the girls LOVE him!)

But today, Josh got to chase Kate all over the field!

Then he was chased by another classmate, Callie!

(popular boy)

The Hmong-speaking Elders!!

Elder T, from Hawaii (and there is no way I can type his entire name), won the cherry pit spitting contest with a distance of 42.5 feet! The hats were for pure entertainment, so I had to capture it!

Jack had an 'I'm too cool for my bike" moment and refused to smile.

The decorating of the bikes were the highlight of our weekend! I figured I owed them all the frills since I rarely, if ever, decorate the inside of our house for holidays.

Then we were lucky enough to spend our evening with the Davis family. Josh and Jack hit it off with their daughter, Maddie, immediately after they moved to WI one month after us! And their other daughter Sydney can even say "Layla" so we know they are good buddies.

The Kid Table

Hot Dogs, watermelon, juice boxes, chips, cookies!

Totally All-American Kids

This was the last we saw of Jack! He was NOT a fan of the fireworks. And when I say fireworks, I mean the ones we usually refer to as the "illegal" ones! They are very legal, and very popular here in WI. Jack spent his evening inside with the toys... and the babies had gone to bed as well.

The Men

Both of these guys were a little gun-shy, since we are so used to worrying about the cops busting us!

Josh and Maddie

Then the crazy wired-kid stuff started...

We looked over after we heard Josh saying, "Jack, just lay down here so I can jump over you."

Jack dodged the bullet this time!

We had a really great time with this family!

Holidays are so much better when they are full of people, laughing, and fun!

SO MUCH TO CATCH UP ON!!!

2011-07-01T12:49:00.000-07:00

Bear with me. And enjoy all the photos!!! (especially Aunt Noma!)

EASTER

Until these holidays with "surprise mornings" come along, I admit that I forget how magical they can be! Of course we discussed the true importance of Easter. But the element of morning fun is a tradition as well.

I love this picture of Layla, who has an obsession with footwear. You can see that she completely threw aside her favorites (the slippers) for her cool, new sandals!!

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MEMORIAL DAY

We picnicked and "hiked" around at the 'Our Lady of Guadalupe' shrine, near south La Crosse.

(thanks for the idea Brenna!)

And thanks to our neighbor, who completely spoils our kids, the kiddos were able to keep busy with bubble wands.

This was a very hot and humid day, but so beautiful! I mean, look at all the green.

From what I can remember, the Lady of Guadalupe is the patron saint of unborn babies.

After climbing quite a trail, in the crazy humidity, there was a very ornate chapel along with some other statues. It was peaceful, and there was a reverence to the surroundings.

We are really bad at taking pics of the 2 of us...

This was the perfect walk/climb to really wear out the kids. And THANK GOODNESS we happened to have the stroller that day!

Umm, not a glamour shot AT ALL!

We can't wait to go on more local adventures, since we still have so much to see and do!

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And I can't remember when I took these. (maybe last May) But they are the "You know you have a toddler when..." kind of pictures!!

She's crazy!

Heading Home - UT part 3

2011-06-10T18:47:00.000-07:00

We had such a great, busy, family-filled visit... But our time in UT came to an end. First of all, THANK YOU to the Goates and the Montagues for letting us stay in your homes, with all of our busy kiddos! They had a blast, and we love you so much.

Before we left town, we were able to meet the Jacobs and the Smiths for dinner at the Red Iguana. (yum, yum, yum!)

We miss you guys!!

So, not 5 minutes up Parley's Canyon and we heard the dreaded sound of all sounds... All of the unknown made Jack so nervous that he kept his face in the "bucket" for the next 30 minutes. (poor guy!) Oh, and this was after a 45 minute visit to a weekend clinic to treat some eye infections. What a send off!

WALL DRUG

For those who have made the journey across South Dakota, you totally know why we had to stop. For miles and miles, and more miles, all we saw were signs singing praises about this "historic" must-see. "Free Ice Water." "Fresh Fudge."

Dan made fun of the whole idea of, mostly because he was sick of the signs. (honestly, there was nothing else to look at) But when we stopped, it totally became the Dan show! I think he had more fun than the kids...

(yep, very off-limits)

This was a special picture meant for those with a sense of humor! All Dan's idea, of course!

Silly Faces!!

"I want, I want"

(not a fan of touristy toy stores)

None of us really understood what this was, but surprisingly, it was Jack who climbed up!

Thanks, Wall Drug, for all of the really random memories!

And thanks again UT friends and family for the wonderful time!

See you all very soon!

While in Utah

2011-06-06T07:59:00.000-07:00

...still at Charlie Chow's:

I watched Jack try and try to use his chopsticks. When no one else noticed his patient efforts, I grabbed my camera. I love this boy and his determination without frustration!

The Trip Home - part 2

2011-06-05T13:06:00.000-07:00

It was much too early in the year to find any type of water park/pool to go play in. Plus, it had been a bit cold. But we can always rely on The Gateway for some fun!!

We were happy to meet our Aunt Lynsie, Grampa Russ, and baby Chance!

Seriously, is it THIS HARD to get a good picture of all 3 of my kids at the same time!!?

... and this was the shot that pretty much convinced me that Layla is no longer a baby. Look how long her logs are, and how huge she is in this stroller!

And then we met Uncle Levi and his cool motorcycle at his favorite restaurant: Charlie Chow's.

Layla was the only brave one to check out his ride!

The Trip Home - pt 1

2011-05-30T19:43:00.000-07:00

We were SO SO excited to make our way back to Utah! We decided that flying all 5 of us was crazy-expensive, so we started planning early for a smooth, LONG road trip. Honestly, a 2-day, 21-hour drive really made me nervous. Plus, we had just decided that our 4-Runner (16 yrs old) was probably not going to make it this year... We squished all 5 of us in to our smaller, Mercedes. Talk about cramped quarters.

Jack was the first of the kiddos to fall asleep EVERY time! It was great, except that he snores like a chainsaw! (there are many who can attest to that)

The kids did SO, unbelievable well. Layla was the one I was most nervous about. For the boys, we had movies, coloring books, Tag Reading systems, and TONS of snacks. But what to do with a toddler for that long. She seemed happy enough just to have her blanket and her binky, which is a usually just for sleep. But we had a stroke of genius when we got 2 sets of headphones to use for the the DVD player. It was SILENT in our car for a few hours, and that was heaven!!

Before I explain these 2 photos, let me just say that THERE IS NOTHING to look at in South Dakota. Then all of a sudden you see sign after sign leading up to some silly tourist-whatever... These pictures are to The Corn Palace. (the "world's only")

And since I must be the sucker that falls victim to such consistent advertising, we totally HAD to go see it!! Folks, it's just a building covered in ears of colorful corn... BUT, I did learn that they have to change out all the ears of corn annually, since it becomes a snack to birds all year.

My iPhone camera didn't do it justice, but those murals are pretty huge. So that's a crazy amount of corn.

THIS little man being held by Jack, was the reason why we waited until May to visit:

Chance Michael Hone

He is our brand new cousin, and we were so excited to meet him and see his mom and dad. (Lynsie and Levi Hone) We waited until Chance's blessing day to make our journey, and cuddling with him made it all worth it!

Layla had a rare lovey-moment with her little cousin!

I know this picture is blury, but I could not get enough cuddle time with Chance! He was so sweet, and just so good. I like to think that we made a connection and he just might remember me when we see him later this year!

SURPRISE!! We had a lucky opportunity to see Granny and Grampa Dan, who had flown from CA to head to Moab. So we were able to meet them for breakfast and to hang out for a bit.

For the first part of our stay, we got to share our Gramma and Grampa Goates' house with Jamie and Gracie! Layla and Gracie took a bit to warm up to each other, but pretty soon they were little buddies!! These 2 girls are so sweet and so funny, and we had so much fun reintroducing them. (but we sure missed Ryan!)

I am really bad at taking pictures with the 3 kiddos keeping me busy, and I really didn't get many while we stayed with my parents. BUT, this doesn't mean we weren't so grateful and happy to stay there. It felt like home... because it still is! We love you, mom and dad Goates.

To be continued...

Playing at the Lakes

2011-05-25T18:52:00.000-07:00

I actually have no clue what this HUGE park is called, but it not only has playground stuff but frisbee-golf courses, baseball diamonds, bike paths, and probably more that I haven't discovered yet. And of course, the "lakes" that cover another large area of the park. (during the winter, there were tons of ice fishing huts) Oh, and it's actually in Minnesota!

(don't worry grandma, this part was very shallow and not near the playground!)

This was the shot I got when I tried to get all 3 kiddos to pose in front of the water and the surrounding bluffs. Notice that Josh is not there...

But Josh was excited to show off his awesome climbing skills! He doesn't remember that he used to hang out at the climbing gym with mom and dad when he was really little.

Even our timid Jack was ready for the amount of sunshine that motivated us to get out and play! He's not usually my climber.

The very first thing we all ran to was this ancient merry-go-round. My kids had never seen one and they ALL hopped on. This is pretty big for my boys who rarely try anything new these days. They loved going around, and I loved all the giggling! I almost couldn't get Layla away from it.

Josh has gotten very, very in to baseball. He starts t-ball next month and CAN-NOT-WAIT!!

(his former pitching daddy is so proud)

So despite that crazy amount of wind that night, and our food blowing away in it, we still had a good time. Winter was WAY TOO LONG here in Wisconsin.

While you wait...

2011-05-25T15:33:00.000-07:00

This site is currently being inundated with photos and tales that go back a couple of months, span across a few states, and include lots of fun moments.

We appreciate your patience while you wait.

Please enjoy this video as a token of our gratitude for your support!

Trek to Ohio

2011-04-22T07:10:00.000-07:00

We were missing family, so we drove to our closest set:

Ben & Amanda & Owen

Ohio

11 hour drive!

This little cutie quickly became Jack's little buddy! Layla also had fun having someone else around that is her size.

WE LOVE COUSINS

The days were cold, but when the sun would peek out, the boys would find their way outside: chalk art, playground, hiking!

(I realize that I have no pics of adults... oops!)

Thank you Owen for letting Josh and Jack sleep in your toy room, and fall asleep with your sock monkeys!

On our way home, we passed by Chicago. One day, when it's warmer, Dan and I will head back there for a much needed vacation.

Of course we had to try Chicago style deep-dish pizza.

SO YUMMY!!

We are lucky to have boys who will sleep just about anywhere. Layla is not so easy, but will sleep in any crib as long as she has her favorite pink blanket.

And to send us on our way - a breakfast fit for a 'King!'

(can you guess where we are?)

Everyone did a great job staying patient and happy. This was a good test run before our really LOOOONG drive to Utah in a bit. As long as the truckers pay attention to the boys who are begging them to pull their horns, we should be just fine!

Thank you Ben and Amanda for letting us totally invite ourselves to your home!

Layla the Toddler

2011-04-13T12:28:00.000-07:00

The only little girl in our house just became a toddler. I consider 18 months to end baby-hood. There were no tears this time.

Likes:

Shoes. Tutus. Her pink blanket. Kitties. Dogs. Bedtime binky. Fruit snacks. Blue's Clues. Baths. Being outside, doing anything. Eating snow. Singing songs with actions. Wrestling with brothers. Pasta anything. Oatmeal. Yogurt. Grapes. Climbing everything. Sitting in the middle of our table. Playing with mom's iPhone. Having her picture taken. "Helping" unload dishwasher.

Dislikes:

Bananas. (since 4 months) Being mimicked. (she can sound like a car alarm when she whines, so we do it back) Grilled Cheese. Getting caught. Brothers trying to hug her when it's not her idea.

What we love about Layla:

Only her brothers get her to belly-laugh, and it's priceless!!

She likes to "sing" when we are in the car.

She has ALWAYS woken up a happy, smiley girl.

She is the first to try everything, before her older brothers. (no fear)

She can totally hold her own - against brothers or any other kids.

She is quick to forgive and forget.

We love our Layla Hope Montague.

I Kid You Not

2011-04-05T16:53:00.000-07:00

This was our dinner conversation tonight:

Jack: (he had lost his shirt after spilling milk on it) "What are these little things, mom?"

Me: "Your nipples. Everyone has them."

Jack: "Josh, do you have pickles?" (seriously, without missing a beat)

Josh: (searching his fingers) "I think I have one right on this finger."

(by now I am totally laughing, and encouraging this to keep going)

Me: "Ask dad if he has pickles."

Jack: "Dad, are your pickles big or little?"

Josh: "Mom, you have really big pickles!"

Jack: "Mom, show your pickles to dad."

**This is where Dan and I at the same time started to envision teenage boys in our days dragging State and yelling: "Show me your pickles!" (we literally said it at the same time!)

Your welcome.

I Forgot...

2011-03-15T18:19:00.001-07:00

... to include a picture of this too-smart-for-his-own-good, bus-riding, chillin' like a villain - Joshy Washy!

(he hates it when we call him that!)

Just Some Thoughts

2011-03-14T12:25:00.000-07:00

I miss Utah. I miss my family and friends - the people who really know me. For the most part, I put on a brave face and try to act positive. But it's exhausting sometimes. I think I am learning a lot about myself since I am here. Some days, I can't fake it. Now that there is a countdown until our trip to UT, I feel myself getting very impatient, and wanting to stay there for weeks. (not just 1)

But, while we are here, we are going to really see Wisconsin. You know? Right now, we are in a tiny town in just 1 corner. We will be heading to Milwaukee for Dan's b-day next week, so I will get a chance to see something new. I hope to see Madison, WI. I have a couple of EHS friends there. If my kiddos continue to be good road-trippers and fall asleep, then we should have no problem. Anywhere we go is over 25 minutes, so they are getting used to it.

Josh was able to start attending Trempealeau Elementary's 4k. (this is preschool run by the school district) He gets on a big, yellow bus Mon-Thurs and is gone ALL afternoon. He loves it all - bus, class, teacher!! But the cutest part of his being gone, is how lovey Layla has gotten with him. EVERY time he walks through the door, all suited with snow pants, coat, and hat, Layla gives him a sweet hug. Oh, it melts my heart!

We had a huge snowstorm last week. We are tired of winter. I can't wait to go to the playground in town, (yes, I just said "in town") and discover trails rumored to be all over the bluffs. We are all really, really pearly white and some sun would do us all some good!

And you know, I am so excited to see THIS missionary come home this year!! His mission has been incredible, and the stories he sends home about the people he has met are amazing and inspiring. And the letters are a weekly reminder to me that no matter what challenges I face, our Heavenly Father has our best interest in mind ALL of the time. And I know that HE wanted us in WI, for whatever time it amounts to be. The lessons just keep presenting themselves - easy and not easy.

Turning 30 - part 2

2011-03-05T20:15:00.000-08:00

Remember when I had almost no time but I decided to set 30 goals to achieve before I turned 30? Crazy, I know.

Well, before I go through each goal, I'm gonna say that I'm not going to go through each goal! I don't have that kind of time.

A few years ago, Elder Dallin H. Oaks gave a General Conference talk entitled "Good, Better, Best." He discussed the fact that we each have this list of all the things we need to and have to do in our lives, and that sometimes it's hard to choose between all the "good." With my limited amount of time, I found that I felt okay as I started to put my time towards certain goals and maybe realizing that others will have their place in the future.

With that said, can I just say how grateful I am for The Book of Mormon. I am so happy that I set the time-consuming goal to start and complete it by my birthday. I love the conversations I have had with Josh (and Dan) about the prophets who lived amazing lives, taught us so much, and loved their people with their whole selves. I can honestly say with my whole heart that this book changes lives. It has changed mine. I know it will continue to be a source of strength to my family. It has brought a sense of peace to me as I brave this challenge I find myself facing . I know that my Savior, Jesus Christ came to this nation, among others, because he loves all of God's children and taught us to just endure with faith and hope in the face of all adversity. He wants us to return home.

That is what The Book of Mormon has done for me.

Amen.

Turning 30 - part 1

2011-02-24T11:21:00.000-08:00

I'm going to be honest. For me, turning 30 was hard. But not for the getting-older reasons. I was just sad not to have family or friends around... and really, it would have been awesome to have had someone plan me a surprise party for the big 3-0. Selfish? Maybe.

I envisioned many scenarios with being able to fly certain people to come help me celebrate: sisters, mom, mom & sisters, a certain bestest girlfriend... None of them were budget-friendly.

But don't worry. It turned out great. I started in to my 30's with my forever best friend - hubby. He arranged for a special visitor to come stay with the kids so we could "run away" for a night!

So we drove up to the Twin Cities. And you know, the 2 1/2 hour drive seemed amazingly short when there were no kids to tend to! The drive along the half-frozen Mississippi River is just beautiful. But, it was about 10 degrees and stopping to take pictures was NOT tempting at all.

Our hotel was pretty normal-blah-looking during the day, but when we returned (late) that night, it was a lot of fun! You would have thought we'd arrived in Vegas. It was a great hotel, btw, with a huge, comfy bed! (and 15 minutes from everything)

Can I just say, "WHAT THE WHAT?" When did I become SO old that popular stores are using 1981, my birth year, as a vintage-sounding title? Has anyone else seen this?!?

(yes, we were at The Mall of America again!)

We had a fabulous dinner at The Cheesecake Factory. And you know, I would totally make that drive just to go there again!! Can you see the chocolate birthday wishes around the edge of the plate? So fun!

(ps, it was -15 when we left the restaurant and then headed to a late movie... COLD)

I have no explanation for this. But if you lived where it was below ZERO all winter long, you'd need a new hobby to... I guess.

And thank you to the man, Grampa Russ, that made our getaway possible! Everyone was happy and thriving when we returned. (and mostly I mean Russ!!) Those kids can make one nutty.

Thank you to those who made my birthday special, even from miles and miles away.

I love you all.

New Past-time

2011-02-20T20:02:00.000-08:00

After our visit from Granny and Grampa Dan, Josh has been spending his free time with this game!

After his first day at 4K preschool, which is over 3 hrs in WI, he ran in and said, "Mom, I have to go dance." (or something like that) My new favorite phrase I hear now is "Jack, come dance with me." Jack doesn't get in to it very often, but it does motivate him at other times...

So the game above inspired THIS:

Untitled from Lindsey Montague on Vimeo.

...which then inspired THIS.

(My boys are fantastic at gettin' down!)

Untitled from Lindsey Montague on Vimeo.

Love Day

2011-02-18T20:11:00.001-08:00

How do you get such yummy looking Valentine's Day cookies?

First, you need some cute little helpers...

...like this girlie of mine who is constantly rearranging my kitchen drawers. (specifically my cooking utensils... it makes for a scavenger hunt every time I need something)

Josh was my expert cookie-cutter-user. And thank you to Granny and Grampa Dan for the fun cutters!!

Jack also loves to help in the kitchen, but especially when the end result is COOKIES!

Loading them on the pan.

Oh, and the best part for sure - FROSTING!!

Grampa Dan can attest to the fact that when you start taking pictures of Layla, she DEMANDS for more! Every time I would stop and stand up, she would start to yell at me.

DIVA!!

Happy Love Day

What a gorgeous way to end it!

Thank You

2011-02-15T06:17:00.000-08:00

Thank you to the endorphins that rushed through my brain this morning, making everything swirly.

Thank you to the warm spell, allowing me to stretch my waking muscles in front of the open door.

Thank you to the birds who have brave this harsh winter and create beautiful songs for my new routine.

Thank you to the squirrels who hopped from tree to tree, bringing the dead branches to life.

...and thanks to the 3 kids who AMAZINGLY did not disturb me during the much needed Me-time!

Sneezing

2011-01-31T07:39:00.000-08:00

"Josh, do you know why we always wash our hands when we sneeze?"

"Germans!"

Star Wars has Arrived

2011-01-28T11:50:00.000-08:00

In a galaxy far, far away, (maybe Wisconsin) the Force was unusually strong with one named JOSH. His 5th birthday revealed many skills that set him apart from others is age.

... even Yoda was seen at this youngling's celebration.

Happy was this boy's family to see such festivities: fire displays, songs of joy, paper shredding.

Unexpectedly, Lord Vader revealed himself and a battle did commence.

Great inner strength was shown as this boy came to the aid of Obi Wan.

Young Josh has learned to control his excitement with the ways of the Jedi.

(most of the time)

Well, maybe not!

We still love this boy, who loves Star Wars and wants to be a Jedi!

January 19th

2011-01-19T14:40:00.000-08:00

FIVE years ago I became a mommy!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSH

With each passing year, I find so many new things that make me so proud to be Josh's mom.

He is SO nice to others, all the time.
He's never been territorial with his "stuff" when friends are around.
He is wanting to know lots about Jesus Christ, Heavenly Father, and what happens after we die. And he remembers everything we tell him.
JOSH IS READING!!! (word families are easy to him now)
Josh is also spelling out words phonetically, and I as a former K-teacher, I am WAY impressed!
Josh loves, loves, loves his grandparents! He can't wait for visits and skype chats.
He loves to know how things work, or are related. (that makes sense if you really know him)
Right now, he is overly obsessed with Star Wars. (just wait for the party pics!)
He has the most amazing memory. The things he brings up leaves us dumbfounded.
Once in a while he will take a long nap, and then wake up as the sweetest boy ever!
He was in preschool in UT, LOVED IT, and cannot wait for kindergarten to start!
His theme for life right now, thanks to Wendy Sorenson, is: try something new. (food, movies, activities, etc)
He has started to take showers rather than baths!!
He misses his buddy Gabe.
He loves stealing hugs from his baby sis, even if she doesn't love it!
Josh loves to play chase games with Jack; from Jedi roles to Robin Hood.
He gets SO excited for our Family Movie Night, and loves when we are all together at home.

Oh, I could go on and on!

Josh, you teach me so much every day. You teach me to be prepared to answer your questions, that never stop coming! You allow me to be a teacher once in a while again. You have shown me how to be content at home, and how to enjoy life at a slower pace.

We love you Josh!

Checking In

2011-01-09T19:51:00.000-08:00

I am turning 30 in THIRTY days. YIKES! So what has been accomplished on my list of 30 things to do before I turn 30?

Numbers 2-5: (the physical category)

2. I have lost 6 lbs and 5 inches SO FAR!!

3. I just finished the South Beach phase 1... today! Sugar craving is controlled, for now...

4. I am totally drinking 2 liters every day. I just need to get in 1/2 liter more!

5. The caffeine, which was ammended to allow me a bit every so often, is also under control!

(1. I have NOT been great about exercising each day... 30 days to get my butt in gear)

As I read over my goals, I am a bit overwhelmed. But, I am just doing my best!

A Preview

2011-01-05T15:39:00.000-08:00

Josh turns 5 in TWO WEEKS.

He is obsessed, OBSESSED, with Star Wars.

Birthday-breakfast Star Wars pancakes, anyone?

Christmas 2010

2011-01-01T15:00:00.000-08:00

30 by 30 #3

2010-12-29T19:19:00.000-08:00

THIS #3 is a tough one, but will be so rewarding.

I have once again started the South Beach Diet - phase 1. For those who think it's awful, it really isn't bad. I get to try new recipes while controlling my sugar cravings and losing weight. WIN WIN! Sure, I'll start wanting to bite in to a juicy apple by day 10, but then I'll only have 4 days to go. Anyway, you can keep up with me on my other blog.

Here is my request:

Send me some good egg-no-carb recipes. (using veggies would be great as well) I will get SO BORED of eggs.

I appreciate it!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

2010-12-23T20:11:00.001-08:00

From the Montague Family

Sweet Layla Girl - almost 15 months

Chill Jack Jack - 3 1/2

Silly Joshy Washy - almost 5!!

Caption Contest!!

2010-12-22T13:05:00.000-08:00

(Yes Larrie, I totally ripped this idea from you!)

The winner from our last contest was Jamie!! Your prize: a HUGE kiss blown all the way from Wisconsin! Congrats.

Before you start brainstorming,

LOOK REALLY CLOSELY AT THIS PICTURE!

I mean, there was a definite reason I went for my camera!

Everything leads back to the PRESENTS

2010-12-20T11:19:00.000-08:00

Josh has found a way to turn EVERY conversation in a direction that always ends with him begging to "open just one present!" Really, this is a skill.

Me: Josh, you can't just invite yourself to someone else's house. You can ask him to play here.

Josh: But I don't like our house.

Me: Do you want to go live somewhere else?

Josh: Well, maybe our house would be more fun if we opened those presents. (pointing to the ones from family, waiting to be opened)

See.

The Nicest

2010-12-16T18:38:00.000-08:00

I just came from a neighbor's home, who I just met, and THIS plate is what she gave me. Seriously? She is the last of the 4 neighbors on our circle to meet and really sweet.

I count 13 varieties!!

WOW!

And this was the night of our HUGE storm. It was a ton that night, but the next morning we found 26 inches of snow, with 3 feet of snow drifts!!

Josh was loving it!

Ammendments

2010-12-12T11:32:00.000-08:00

I am adjusting some of my 30x30 goals:

18. Create a new game for the kiddos.

This was originally planned to entertain my boys while we are stuck inside most days. But really, Jack so easily entertains himself. Josh is my issue-child. So, instead, I am "creating" some time each day to do school work/projects with him. I mean, why the heck do I have an ENTIRE kindergarten classroom packed up in my garage if I'm not gonna use it? Josh is so incredibly ready, and is spelling out words on his own. He shocks me all the time with what he can do, literacy-wise.

(this is also aiding in my #19: Give each child 45 minutes of my time... & #21: using my K resources...)

6. No more caffeine.

Did anyone think I was really going to do this?!? Well, what I have done is kick the crazed obsession I had to going out each day just to have my beloved Dr. Pepper. Like a crack-addict, I would just "find myself" in a convenient store. Or, I need gas... again. You get it. So since typing up my goals, I will allow myself my wonderful beverage IF we are out. And where we live, that is hardly ever now.

So there you go.

Our 'WI'nter Wonderland

2010-12-10T14:43:00.000-08:00

You see how I did that with the state - WI - in the title!? You loved it.

We decided, with the warmer 28 degree weather today, that we would go play in the snow. It was sun-shiny and wind-less. WIN!

EVERY DAY, Josh says, "Mom, can we play outside after naps when it warms up?" My response, "Josh, it will never be warm here!"

So the boys were elated for some snow time!

(I even enjoyed getting some fresh air)

Josh wanted to get a shot of me and Jack. Aren't we just so cute!?

We have been watching these tracks appear all over the edge of our yard, and even around our entire house. Jack is convinced it's from a deer. Josh KNOWS they are from the elves... they are actually a stray cat's. But it was fun to follow them!

The snow here is SO powdery, which is bad for snowballs/snowmen-making, but great for sleds!!

BEST SHOT OF THE DAY

(Jack using his entire body to pull Josh maybe 1 inch!)

So how did we end our excursion?

With hot chocolate & marshmallows, and freshly made (still warm) bread with jam!!

Of course.

Caption Contest

2010-12-07T13:51:00.000-08:00

So, tell me what this girlie of mine is doing. The best caption/narration WINS!!

Our little Turkey Day!

2010-12-04T19:42:00.001-08:00

Happy Thanksgiving

2010

After a crazy day of cooking my first turkey EVER, along with most of the extras, it was time to sit down with my little family and reflect on what I am always most thankful for: the most amazing husband ever, and the 3 crazy kids we created!!!

We taught the boys to toast, in true Van Housen/Bienkowski style...

(we missed our CA family)

Layla was smiley all day, which made us extra grateful for her sweet personality. We are so blessed to have a funny, beautiful, and loving little sister.

Josh had been excited for this holiday for weeks, ever since discussing it in his SLC preschool. His only expectations were turkey and pumpkin pie, so I had to at least do those homemade. He was not disappointed!

We are grateful for this oldest brother who is SO smart about so many things. We are truly astounded by the way his brain works things out, the vocabulary he surprises us with, and his mature negotiating skills.

Jack is special in so many ways. He has the best imagination and watching him create scenarios with his trains/cars his so much fun! He repeats everything we say, which is why his speech has improved a TON in the last few months. Now we just need to work on his volume... since he basically whispers and even Layla is louder when she babbles!!

And then there is Dan. He is my other half, and I can honestly say that there is an overwhelming void when he is not around. The 2 weeks without him were 14 days too long, and will never happen again. I love him more than I can ever express, and will support him in the goals he desires to achieve because I know he has us always in his heart.

I was also grateful to see that I FINALLY have a child who will eat whatever I cook. The boys are famous for eating like birds... Not Layla! She is excited about whatever is on the spoon in front of her face.

Josh was happy with his first experience with pumpkin pie, while Dan was showing him that it's really all about the freshly whipped cream!!

We were thinking about ALL of our family on this day. We missed the laughter, the jokes, the movie quotes, and just the togetherness. (oh, and others helping with the cooking!) But we do look forward to creating traditions with Josh, Jack, and Layla.

30 by 30 #6

2010-12-02T12:44:00.000-08:00

I have NOT had any caffeine for 4 1/2 days!

Yay, right?!

Well, oddly enough, now I am not sleeping well anymore... which makes me want some Dr. Pepper in a mean way. (and I had been sleeping amazingly well for the first time in a long time)

I blame the fact that there's no more end-of-the-day crash anymore, but WHAT THE HECK?

Any ideas?

Family Dance Party

2010-11-29T19:17:00.000-08:00

Doesn't that title just intrigue you? You're gonna want to watch these videos for sure.

Josh has some pretty sweet moves! He says he wants to be in a dance class for boys. I would do it in a second if I knew where one was being taught.

All I have to do is say "DANCE PARTY" and Josh is ready in position, waiting for some awesome music!!

30 by 30

2010-11-27T17:33:00.000-08:00

I was very inspired by friend Shannon. (her comments say Shanny!) I read her post with the same title as mine RIGHT AFTER I had been wallowing in my own self-pity about being "alone" on my big 30th birthday in 2 months. She made a sort of bucket-list-by-30-yrs-old for herself. (THANK YOU Shannon for such a needed idea!)

Her post spoke to many sides of my personality. First, I am the QUEEN of list-making! Second, I know that when I set goals, work on goal, and achieve goals, I feel wonderful! Shanny organized hers in to categories, and mine will be tailored to fit me and my family. I had already decided to start doing more to create a more fun environment in our home so my family (Josh) will be happier with simplicity while we are stuck inside during the winter.

I don't know when Shannon's b-day is, but mine is in just over 60 days. So I have some major work to do!! Some of these will be hard, some will be easy. But I want to welcome 30 by feeling like I made accomplished some awesome goals. And I know theses will help me feel more at-home in my new state/town/neighborhood.

My categories are: physical, spiritual, things to create, family, Mary Kay.

30 by 30

1. Do something active for at least 45 minutes every day. (no Sundays, though)

2. Lose 10 pounds. (or some inches, or just feel awesome)

3. Control my HUGE sugar craving with South Beach 14 days of no sugar. (did it once, and it worked, but my will power caved after getting pregnant)

4. Drink at least 2.5 liters of water DAILY.

5. Reinstate 'Special Treat Friday.' (cookies/treats only on Fridays)

6. NO MORE CAFFEINE. (holy cow, I just put it in writing...)

7. Read the entire Book of Mormon.

8. Write in my journal EVERY DAY until my bday. (by then, habit formed!)

9. (organized) Family Home Evening EVERY week.

10. Practice playing hymns/primary songs every day. (piano)

11. Write a letter each week to Elder-Uncle Thomas.

12. Attend the St. Paul temple once. (it's 2.5 hrs away, and we have yet to know who to leave leave out kids with for that amount of time)

13. Make and SEND 30 thank-you cards.

14. Sew curtains for kids' rooms.

15. Work on finishing Layla's 1-year scrapbook.

16. Buy & prepare the material for my soon-to-come nephew's quilt.

17. CREATE a job chart for EVERY member of our family!

18. Create a new game for the kiddos.

19. Give each child 45-60 minutes of my undivided attention, and let them choose our activity.

20. Story time before bedtime.

21. Utilize my Kindergarten files/games/activities/knowledge to keep Josh engaged.

22. Arrange for sitters/trade nights so I can go on at least 2 dates each month with Dan.

23. Friday Family Movie Night!

24. Weekly library trips.

25. Have 2 new team members. (thus, earning my Red Jacket!!)

26. Pass out all 500 of my gift $10 certificates.

27. Create my dream board.

28. Start reading Mary Kay's biography. (she really was an amazing woman)

29. Hold 2 classes each week.

30. Ask for 4 interviews each week.

So there you have it. I have just over 60 days until I turn 30, and that many days to complete this list. Check in to see how things are going. I will try to include pictures where I can.

Ready, set, GO!!

With Tons of Time on My Hands...

2010-11-26T18:00:00.000-08:00

...and no friends or family around, I decided to make doughnuts to win over my neighbors!! It worked. But more on that later.

YUM!

Layla has 3 favorite things: pink blanket, binkie, milk. When I captured her here, she was lucky enough to have all 3 at the same time. (this means that Dad let her keep the bink after nap time) Oh, and she is walking all over the place, going up and down stairs, and being quite daring with climbing on everything. She is trouble these days!

And seriously, it is rare to get the boys to 1) hold still for my slow camera, and 2) smile at the same time for my camera. But who wouldn't smile while popping bubble wrap, right?!

Welcome to Wisconsin!

2010-11-24T10:03:00.000-08:00

...more specifically, to Trempealeau, WI. The place we now call HOME!

You'll want to find yourself on Arabian Lane, then drive to the top.

We have 3 other houses on our circle, and we are pretty spread out.

COME ON IN!! Josh and Jack will give you a quick tour.

As you walk in, on your left, is our office. It's pretty sparse for now, but as mom's Mary Kay business gets bigger, it will fill up for sure.

To your right it where our piano is hiding. There is nowhere to sit for now, so we just run and run as loud as we can on the wood floor so we sound like elephants. Mom loves it!

Hiding in the corner of the house is mom and dad's room. We have tons of fun jumping off their bed!

And WOW, do we just LOVE THIS TUB!!! All 3 of us can fit and it's like a small pool.

Back to the main part of the house, here is our family room and in the back is our kitchen and dining room. We watch for deer to come in to our yard from those windows.

It's been too cold for us to play outside, but we are SO excited to explore the forest in our back yard!!

This is our kitchen.

(please ignore the move-in mess)

This is the downstairs family room and little kitchen. We have set up forts in the bottom cabinets, and even Layla will hide in there with us!

We started to decorate for Christmas, but those pictures will be ready later.

(back to LINDSEY narrating)

This is downtown Trempealeau, which sits right on the Mississippi River. Isn't it cute? This is really all there is to it. Did you see the population # in the first picture?!

I have been really happy that this area of WI is very NOT flat! It has been a good compromise for this mountain girl. I can tell it will be beautiful in the spring/summer.

I know this wasn't full of kid pics, but those will come. Now that this storm is hitting, I will have LOTS of time to post!

Trivia Nerd

2010-11-03T13:30:00.000-07:00

Yes, I am a trivia nerd. And to prove it, here's my latest story:

(I am standing in line at a gas station behind 2 guys)

Guy 1: "What band is this playing on the radio?"

(I totally was singing along with the song in my head...)

Guy 2: "I don't know, but I know that the whole CD gets you all depressed and you want to kill yourself."

(I silently disagreed.)

Guy 1: "Really, I don't think it sounds that bad."

(I agree with #1)

Guy 2: "I think it's a band like Coldplay... yeah, I'm sure that's who it is."

Me (in my head only): "IT'S THE FRAY!!!!!!"

(I came SO SO close to telling them, but that would show how anal I am about pop culture trivia!)

The Last October...

2010-10-24T17:08:00.000-07:00

... at least in Utah, for a while.

Who knew that my kids would love to dress up with scary masks!?!

Halloween definitely arrived at our house!

After months of training on treadmills, and running with an awesome and patient friend, I FINALLY ran my planned 6K at Thanksgiving Point!! I loved it and can't wait to run another. Just imagine 1850 women of all ages and sizes running together. The energy and atmosphere was amazing. And I was so proud that I had made a goal, worked on it, and then achieved it!

For mine and Dan's combined 30th birthdays, (mine is still coming) we were so graciously taken to Las Vegas by Dan's mom and stepdad: Granny & Grampa Dan. We stayed in the Planet Hollywood Towers, just 1 year old, and it was an awesome room! Then we were even luckier to be able to see LOVE, by Circue du Soleil. Dan and I have been humming Beatles tunes ever since!

And then there was the pumpkin patch with Grampa Russ.

Kid wheel-barrows were the best!

And it's a good thing we are moving to farm country, so Jack can get his fix of tractors and anything made my John Deere!!

(what, did I just say moving...?)

Thanks Grampa Russ!!

We will miss you, and everyone else we love so much here in Utah.

We will have lots more time to post when we get to La Crosse, Wisconsin... next month.

This post...

2010-10-07T15:14:00.000-07:00

...has had me emotional all afternoon. (okay, for the last 2 weeks)

And has been 1 year in the making.

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY LAYLA

Layla, you came in to our family and made us complete. A baby girl, following 2 very busy boys!

You brought a needed calmness to our home, as well as the sweetest spirit.

You taught your big brothers how to love someone littler than themselves.

Then came your funny, independent, willful, and mischievous personality.

(this is her plotting-face)

Really, feet on the table?

You are known as:

Layla

baby girl

Honey-girl

trouble maker

little sister

princess

Layla, you make us so happy. You make us laugh, and you know how to frustrate your brothers! You are already way too smart, and keep us on our toes... We can't wait for all that is to come. And with more tears, of pure happiness, in my eyes I speak for all of us when I say

WE LOVE YOU.

And check out just how daring this girlie is, already. We are in trouble!

More Midway!

2010-09-24T13:25:00.000-07:00

Heber Creeper

Josh to conductor: "Do you know Thomas?" (and not his uncle...)

Conductor: "Yes I do. I got to see him earlier this year."

The conductor then became the coolest adult on the train!

Boys. In. Heaven.

Okay, Grampa Goates was the other coolest guy on the train, since he (and gramma) arranged this for all of us "kids."

I had no idea the train passed Deer Creek Reservoir. Josh was glued to the window...

... and so was Jack!

Really, look at Josh's excitement in the way he's all scrunched up at the window!! I could have watched them stare out of the train all day.

Cascade Springs

This place was gorgeous. Enough said.

Enjoy!

Goates Family Reunion

2010-09-22T11:54:00.000-07:00

First of all, I think we ALL fell in love with the Midway/Heber valley!! (some of us were even shopping for house layouts, neighborhoods, and adjusting quite well to the smallness of it!)

Jon & Dawn Goates

Dan & Lindsey & Josh & Jack & Layla Montague

Ben & Amanda & Owen Goates

Jason & Jacey Goates

Ryan & Jamie & Grace Turner

(we missed Elder Thomas Goates - still in Argentina)

It was a HUGE house, FULL of people, games, diapers, yummy food, laughter, laundry, books, and fun. I sometimes wonder how we fit SO much in to our trip!

...seriously, YUMMY food the whole time we were there!!

Since my boys are in constant need of entertainment, which is much different than just having all the babies keeping themselves busy, we came up with some odd-looking, but time-consuming games!!

Then we spent a fun, but windy, afternoon at the Midway City Park. (yep, there's just one!)

And here we see that my girl is not afraid of sports!!

I am pretty sure that Josh LOVES being the oldest: brother and cousin. He loved making the babies laugh, loved pushing strollers, and feeding them "puffs."

This is the best action shot EVER!! Look closely at Jack's the-ball's-coming-at-my-face-expression! He is such a stud. (oh, and Dan too!)

So these 2 girlies kept us quite busy with infections... which lead to some vomiting, antibiotics, and nasty diapers! Gotta love traveling with babies.

Uncle Ryan and Jack-Jack.

(gorgeous sky, right?)

Josh has the best pitcher's stance... which is appropriate since Dan played pitcher all through high school.

...LOTS more to come!

We've MOVED!

2010-09-18T12:55:00.000-07:00

And now that I have internet, a working laptop, a camera that finally uploaded pics, AND a blog site that fixed my account, I can catch up on the last 2 1/2 months:

Layla crawling, standing, and cruising
Fall at the farm
Goates Family Reunion in Midway
Picture-tour of our new place

So until all those events are ready to be posted, enjoy this...

('cause I know you will!)

SO CUTE Binky Clips

2010-08-19T21:04:00.001-07:00

I learned how to make something new last month. Binky clips. I have given some away, after having the design tested and approved by my own cute baby! She loves hers. But I have TONS left over from a boutique that I made the clips for. So...

... THEY ARE FOR SALE FOR YOU!

Spoil your own baby, friend's baby, or coming niece or nephew.

(Congrats to my sis-in-law, Lynsie, who is giving us another cousin!!!)

This is a sample of how to use it with this type of binky. Layla's is the NUK kind, but I cut off the ribbon since it gets stinky, and strung the clip through the plastic ring.

THE CREAMIES

Made with a variety of tans, creams, with cream stars.

THE LIL' BUDDIES

THE LADIES

I have been using pinks and corals together, and I have found that they have matched almost everything Layla has been wearing. But of course, I can do just pinks, reds, purples... Name it!

LOTS O' COLORS

I also have Layla wearing one of these and I love it! I almost thought the rainbow of colors would be too much, but made some anyway... but it is SO cute with everything she wears!

ALUMNI PRIDE

This is the big rivalry in Utah, so I thought it would be funny to have them right next to each other in the picture!

But I can personalize any binky clip: names, b-day, nicknames, special colors...

Regular binky clips - $8:00

Personalized - $10.00

FREE SHIPPING!!!

montague.lindsey@gmail.com

Temporary Unavailable

2010-08-18T14:45:00.000-07:00

Yes, we are moving. And so, I am (or should be) very busy packing and keeping the 3 entertained at the same time.

But really, I can't update with anything fun or visual because my laptop's charger died and I cannot stand (since I can't say hate) the Apple Store, so a trip there is not tempting enough to schedule it in to my day. And who is at the Gateway that often anyway?

So, please stand by. I am sure a whole crap-load of pictures and events will posted soon.

By soon, I mean the first part of September, if I am responsible enough to stay focused on the task at hand!

Enjoy your day.

Today...

2010-08-07T20:29:00.000-07:00

...these things made me happy:

* Waking up refreshed, thanks to our new mattress topper.

* A great work-out.

* Knowing that Jack had some great alone time with Grampa and Gramma Goates.

*Lots of yummy fresh fruit in my Bountiful Basket.

* Doing some more de-junking and packing... Foxboro, here we come!!

* Finishing my talk for church tomorrow! (only had 3 days notice)

* An authentic Philly Cheese Steak sandwich from Moochies. (holy crap, it's so good)

* Shrieks of laughter coming from Josh as he soaked himself in the Gateway fountain!

*Making Layla giggle as I help her stand on her own for 2 seconds, then letting her feel the falling sensation. (she is a thrill-seeker)

* Oh, and making out with Dan a little before I headed to the store!!!

... just thought you'd like to know how my day went. How was yours?

Reunions - Part 2

2010-08-06T13:20:00.001-07:00

10 years ago, I worked at Brighton LDS Girls Camp.

This is a camp up at the top of Big Cottonwood Canyon, and is for 12-14 year-old girls to come for 5 days to experience the outdoors, meet new friends, sing camp songs, and most importantly, become closer to their Savior and Father in Heaven.

It was an honor to work at such a place, and to have such responsibilities that I had.

"The counselors up at Brighton, they say are mighty fine..."

To follow tradition, which is VERY long-standing, (established in 1921) my camp counselor name was Jasper. I was lucky enough to share a room with 3 other counselors for the first half of our summer, and Cheers was one of those. (we didn't connect at the reunion, but I will see her next week!)

"... A time to remember the beautiful things..."

30 years ago, my mom was also a Brighton Counselor. Her camp name was Cracka', and when she came for her 20 year reunion, while I was still a counselor, she painted her name by mine in the cabin we both had been assigned to during our respective summers!

I loved Brighton as a 12 & 13 year-old, but really started loving it long before... My mom used to sing us to sleep with the sweet camp songs that sing of the mountains, friendship, the Savior, etc. I was destined to be a part of this wonderful legacy.

"... now I know that God has made this world for me..."

I don't get told that I "haven't changed a bit," since of course I have. But, dang, this girl - Bay - HAS NOT CHANGED!! This is her same huge smile she shared with all of us as well as her young campers 10 years ago.

"God didn't give me much, just the green leaves of summer..."

Tizzy was the first reunion from my summer of 2000. She (Liz) also graduated from East High School. It was great to see her again and share our memories of other counselors, catching and killing mice, the food, the campers... Seriously, it's amazing what things come back to you when you are with people you shared them with!

"I know a place where no one ever goes. There's peace and quiet, beauty and repose..."

Okay, I had to do the zip line for old times sake!

"Walk tall you're a daughter, a child of God..."

Horizon was probably one of the first people I met when moving my stuff up for that summer. She (Sarah) was one of the 3 roomates I had the privilege of living with. She was, and still is, so sweet and genuine. I was lucky to see her since her family now lives in Minnesota. (which is funny, because the 4th of our roomates' camp name WAS Minnesota!)

The wonderful thing about having reunions, which span many generations, is that the camp, like the Gospel, doesn't change. Sure, there have been some cosmetic work done, and the counselors change each summer... But the spirit of love and the beauty of the canyon will always remain.

"... the Gospel truth has come to me, I want to pass it on."

At least for me, this camp was probably where my personal testimony of our wonderful gospel started to grow as a 12-year-old. As a 19-year-old, I can tell you that this is definitely where I felt the pure love of God for the beautiful girls who were in my care each week.

"Shadows creep o'er the earth, darkness falls anew. Winds are still, heav'ns are clear. Stars their lights subdue. Moon above and our love say good-night to you. Say good-night to you."

What do you do...

2010-08-02T09:44:00.000-07:00

...when it's 80 Degrees IN YOUR HOUSE?

Go somewhere new to get out all the energy pent up in your children so they will crash when you get home. This is what we did last night right after a post-church nap for all.

Welcome to

GILGAL

(seriously, say that word with a normal voice... it's impossible, right?!)

This garden was designed by a local artist named Thomas Child, who died in 1963. It used to be private property, which was a temptation to thrill-seeking teenagers who would climb the fence at night to freak themselves out. Gilgal is filled with sculptures, rocks, engraved landscaping stones... and of course, the infamous Joseph Smith Sphinx,

The last time I visited Gilgal, it had been made open to the public, but we waited until night to get the creepy effect. Well, in the light of day, Dan and I actually read the visitor guide which explains every piece of art in the garden. Now I find it a very unique and insightful place.

Honestly, Dan and I had heard rumors of the artist being nuts, or an LDS fanatic. The truth is, Thomas Child served as an LDS bishop for 9 years and all of his art pieces are inspired by a certain scripture or person from church history.

For example, the Joseph Smith Sphinx:
A sphinx is a symbol of mystery and the unknown. Yet, Joseph Smith aided in the restoration of the gospel of Christ to the earth, therefore bringing truth and answers.

There is another HUGE piece that is a very tall boulder with the carving of a warrior, with the top stone for the head left unfinished. This warrior represents the warriors of God, and the head was left "blank" so we can picture ourselves as such.

Again, with there being a giant sculpture of Thomas Child himself, who wouldn't think he was a bit nutty. But, a different sculptor did that for him. Child had such a love and respect for the art of Masonry, which is why this piece is surrounded by the tools he and his artists used.

But, there must have been a certain energy inside this garden... or the fact that it was filled with stones and boulders. Josh and Jack were in heaven running around, since we had the place to ourselves. Thankfully.

Gilgal has been very well-restored, as well as voluntarily had flower gardens added by Utah State University. Now that we are much more educated about the artist and his intentions, it is a beautiful place to visit. What a wonderful testimony of his faith and love for his LDS religion that he has left behind for us to enjoy.

Address: 749 E 500 S

Reunions - Part 1

2010-07-31T18:55:00.000-07:00

I did NOT go to my 10-year HS reunion.
I'm not ashamed.
(especially since it was held 3 blocks from where I was living!)

But, who knew that I would have an awesome 11-year one instead?!

L-R: Larrie Cambell, Karen Smith Phippen, Alison Robertson Anderson, Me, Sabrina Savage Miller, Meghan Johnson, Natalie Allgood Sirmans

All of a sudden, MOST of the ladies I hung around with during high school happened to be in SLC for a while. (Natalia and Shanny, you were definitely missed as part of this pack)
So, we got our families together at Tanner Park, where we had the whole thing to ourselves. Perfect.

Memories
Larrie - LIBWSE, Senior Assassination, sneaking bad captions in to the yearbook (or wanting to)
Karen - well, always waiting for her!! and her great laugh (love ya Karen)
Alison - WAY TOO MANY since I have known her since kindergarten
Sabrina - I always thought of her as very smart ('cause she is)
Meghan - late nights running around the capitol hill area
Natalie - I was actually a bridesmaid at her wedding! I'm sure the dress is still around.

The best part of the reunion was...

... meeting the next generation!!

I am sorry I don't have all of their names, but they are pretty mixed up anyway and they had tons of fun together that night. Just as all their mamas did 11+ years ago!!

Let's do it again next summer?

Jack Turns 3!

2010-07-28T12:26:00.000-07:00

This is Jack Harper Montague

He calls himself "Gack Mawgagoo."

On July 19, he turned "pee!" (3)

We decided to do a last-minute "come-eat-cake" party with any in-town relatives for Jack. He often takes a major back seat due to an attention-hogging older brother, and of course, a baby sister. But as I have said again and again, Jack makes the PERFECT middle child who doesn't seem to mind most of the time.

Layla adores her big brother, Jack. She gets very giggly around him, and just loves playing with his full head of blond hair! They are a cute pair of friends.

Josh also has fun with Jack, and truly considers him a friend. I learned this when I asked Josh who he wanted to invite to his b-day party, and the first name said was Jack's. These 2 boys are 18 months apart TO THE DAY, and are together almost 24 hours a day. Yes, there are disagreements, and sometimes full-out wars... But I am proud of how well they get along and the imagination I can see developing as they play together.

Thanks to all who came: Gma & Gpa Goates, Lynsie & Levi, Todd, Gpa Russ, Jason & Jacey.

There were also many cards and gifts from our out-of-town relatives! It was a whole b-day week for Jack, and it totally drove Josh NUTS!! (who thinks the world revolves around him)

Thank you to Granny & Gpa Dan, GG, Gary & Noma, great Gma and Gpa Cec, and great Gma & Gpa Matheson.

What is a birthday be without some awesome cake!!?

Of course Josh was right there in case Jack needed any pointers on blowing out the candles.

Jack loved every gift he got. There was a definite un-planned theme with gifts, seeing how many construction-type toys/books he got. Everything was perfect for Jack.

We love our Jack Jack. He is our sensitive, quieter child, and is so loving and sincere. He is developing a sense of humor and quiet confidence that I know we will all enjoy.

Happy Birthday Jack

Just in case...

2010-07-23T16:45:00.000-07:00

...you know someone who is either

-becoming a new dad

-just became a new dad

-or a dad having baby #2 and forgot what #1 was like

THIS BLOG POST IS FOR YOU!!!

Enjoy.

(our friends, currently living in Abu Dhabi, but who had stayed with our boys while we left town)

Arches Nat'l Park

2010-07-07T20:29:00.000-07:00

We spent most of our day in the park. It was PERFECT weather, and I have decided that this park is one of the most kid-friendly ones I have been to. We would walk to each arch, which was never more than .5 miles, and then back to the car... just to ride to the next walk. It gave the boys time to rest and get excited for whatever was next.

Josh kept calling the arches "holes," and half-way through the park he all of sudden blurted out, "So, this is Moab."

That became our key phrase of the weekend!

Dan wanted a boys moment, so he hoisted the 2 up in to this "cave!" Luckily, nothing was home during their visit.

I could not have been more proud of the boys, with all the climbing they did. Jack usually starts asking to go home after 100 yards, but all of a sudden he was begging for "more hikes." He was even scaling the steep walls of the arches! It was so fun to watch, and just look how proud he looks.

Looking up at Double Arch

All of us at Skyline Arch

(trivia: did you know that 2 years ago, Wall Arch collapsed? Nature can't last forever.)

C'mon. When you gotta go...

This picture literally had Josh busting a gut for FIVE minutes!!

My awesome little hiker. He loved having his own hydro-pack, and loved to stop and drink on the way to this arch ever 5th step...

Later that night we played at the park until the fireworks started! It gets pretty darn cool at night in Moab.

Although Layla was all out of sync sleep-wise, and was not lovin' the day after her beast-side came out, she was Miss Smiley the day we packed up to head home. She must take after me, and loves knowing she will be in her own bed by night time!!

Thanks Moab.

We were glad to be somewhere warm for the holiday weekend!

The Hotel

2010-07-05T19:41:00.000-07:00

Moab - 4th of July

If you know our family well, you know that we usually spend this summer holiday up in Jackson, WY, where it's green, surrounded by beautiful mountains, and has the BEST fireworks show EVER. Really.

But, due to some very cold weather up north, we decided to change locations. Who really wants to pack winter clothes to go camping?

Though we were in a hotel room, which we unexpectedly scored for under $100/night, the boys were happy to still be sleeping in their sleeping bags. They claimed the bed during the day, but really slept on the floor. Well, poor Josh was kicked off the bed in the middle of the night...

... because this angel-baby during the day turned in to a DEMON. Grr. But, I made a few mistakes which got us to this point:

1- forgot her can't-sleep-without-it-blanket. OOPS.

2- forgot infant pain reducer. (teething)

So, after SCREAMING up the perfect storm, in a hotel room, Dan drove her around until she crashed. But, she was awake again just as angry an hour later. (this was now 1:15 am)

Layla slept with me on the 2nd queen bed. Thank goodness we had 2. Apparently, our little diva just wanted a more padded surface to sleep on!

But we still had a great trip, and the kids always have so much fun being silly together. Josh loves to remind us when "we are all together!" We appreciate that all 3 of the kiddos are great road-trippers, 'cause those are the best kind.

And, after a long day in the car, some swimming, lots of sunscreen, and a bit of dirt, you WOULDN'T BELIEVE how gray the water was after these 3 cuties were pulled out of the tub. Yuck, but we love 'em.

Still come... Arches National Park!!

Caption Contest

2010-07-02T16:38:00.000-07:00

My friend Larrie has a caption contest each week on her blog, so here you go!

Rules: none, I guess...

Prize: BIG shout out to the winner!

Have a great 4th of July weekend!

Happy captioning.

Josh-ism

2010-06-28T14:27:00.000-07:00

Situation:

In the car.

Layla had just spit up and some of it landed on the tiniest edge of Josh's booster.

(Josh has had a morbid fear of spit up ever since a certain Christmas incident!)

Josh: Mom, Layla just spit up on my booster.

Me: Here's a wipe, can you clean it up?

Josh: Yep. You know, Layla is cute, but she needs to remember to stop spitting up because she's not little anymore.

Time Flies...

2010-06-25T11:40:00.000-07:00

...when you are having fun, right? I can't believe it, but I have now been a full-time SAHM (stay at home mom) for exactly ONE year!! So, I'm gonna reflect on that year.

(feel free to log out if this seems uninteresting!)

First of all, I need to express just how blessed I know we are to be able for me to even be at home. We made goals last spring to only make purchases with cash versus credit, even large ones, and have been successful thus far. I am proud of us.

*small sacrifices= NO concerts and NO travel for a year-ish (both things we LOVE)

I also made the decision to keep Josh home from preschool for 2 reasons: 1- he doesn't need 2 yrs of preschool, and 2- I wanted all of us to be home together for this last year before school does come and separate us a bit.

. I think he's doing just fine!!

I have come to learn and appreciate different "home-making" skills that I had no time for while I was teaching. I already loved to cook and try new recipes, but it is so much better when I have time and energy to do it!

Oh, and now we only eat my homemade bread and jam. YUM!

Sewing was one of those skills I never thought I would even want to learn. I rarely replace buttons with thread and needle, let alone pull out a machine. But, when I was in my 3rd trimester-craziness, I did sew Layla's quilt and curtains. I then went on to sew baby Gracie's, baby Owen's, and 2 other quilts in the last year.

Needless to say, I am burned out for a bit!

And of course, we added our baby girl! 3 KIDS!

Josh was also in a speech therapy class from fall-spring, and I am SO proud of his progress and accomplishments. His quarterly progress reports showed consistently decreasing # of speech errors. There was a lot of at-home work to be done, and I know that being home with Josh all year really made a difference with how quickly he progressed. We held each other accountable; me with the homework, and Josh with his speech corrections.

We have been able to experience new things all together, or just with me and the kids. Currently, we are doing some hiking around the valley or in nearby canyons. I was raised very much to love the outdoors, especially our own state's "backyard," so I am excited to share it with my kiddos.

(anyone is welcome to join us... just let me know)

But, there have been many days when we just hang out. I love watching the boys' creativity at work, as well as listening to their hard-to-understand conversations. (not hard to them, though) Those have been some of my favorites, as well as some of the most trying. Winter is just plain hard with little kids. But I survived the cold weather with all the crazy and endless energy the boys have.

Here are my favorite time-fillers:

COOKIE FRIDAYS * playdough * watching Backyardigans * Laird Park * Tanner Park * Liberty Park Canyons-fountain * walks to Gramma Goates' house * SILLY SINGING * playing with friends * NAP TIME! * gym time * zoo trips

So, here's another summer with all the adventures it holds for our family. You will find us trying to keep cool, entertained, and happy!

I am happy at home.

As Long As it Lasts

2010-06-22T12:08:00.000-07:00

This is our daily afternoon nap-time routine:

Layla - 8 1/2 months old

Well, she just drifts right off on her own... for now. BUT, my main concern is her love for this very, very thick and fluffy blanket. She can't relax without it... we've tried with similar, thin-fleecy ones with no luck. I just have to make sure her room stays cool enough so she doesn't sweat while she sleeps. But it's so cute that she is already so attached to something, right?!

Josh - 4 1/2 years old (yes, he still sleeps about 85% of the time!)

(taken today: notice his 3 favorite items)

Josh and I have a deal. It was the same with my mom and me when I was little: "Quiet Time." This allows Josh to choose some favorite toys/books and play with them in my room, alone. But he MUST HAVE his animal blanket, pillow, and King. (his stuffed dog named for our former Labrador) He usually drifts off after 45 minutes and sleeps for 60-90 minutes. He has been "napping" in my room since he and Jack started sharing a room because otherwise, their room would quickly turn in to a frat-party!!

Sometimes I have found him asleep in the middle of a "nest." (all of our pillows in a giant circle, surrounding Josh) So cute! My goal is to continue this routine for him as long as possible, also hoping for AM Kindergarten next year to allow for that.

Jack - almost 3 years old (this is my favorite routine)

Jack knows it's nap time as soon as I say that I have his "gummy." (aka: gummy vitamin) He then runs downstairs, hides in his closet, (EVERY time!) and jumps out to scare me when I reach his room. I always scream! He always giggles.

Then Jack and I both roll in to his bed and he lays on his pillow, while his tummy turns in to my pillow. I might tickle him a bit, or pretend to try to eat his gummy... never succeeding at this, of course. (this next part is my favorite) Then I lay down on Jack's tummy, and each time I lift my head, Jack very authoritatively states, "Go wheep." (Go to sleep) After the 3rd or 4th time I start laughing because of his seriousness in bossing mommy! Soon, we end this mom-Jack time with a snoring contest.

And kisses on his squishy cheeks!

Every day. As long as it lasts.

Father's Day

2010-06-20T15:07:00.000-07:00

Any guy can father a child...

... but it takes a real man to be a dad!

We love you Dan!!

(aka: Dad, Dadda, Daddy, Dadda Daniel)

8 Months

2010-06-10T14:05:00.000-07:00

Our beautiful baby girl is 8 months old!

Layla brings a smile to anyone's face, just by looking at her because she always gives it right back. Her big, blue eyes and long, black eyelashes are quite the attention-getters. One cousin is convinced that Layla needs her own talent agent!

When asked who she looks like most, I will tell you my opinion. She has Jack's round eyes and cheeks, while she has Josh's hairline. But, her personality is SO similar to Josh's as a baby. She LOVES attention, making happy noises, and being involved in any group... just like Josh did. She does have a very sweet and quiet side, which is more like Jack was as a baby. So, just as I have said all along, she is a perfect mix of both of her brothers.

Right now, she is showing a stubborn side when it comes to sleeping. What I mean is, she has a favorite blanket, just like Josh did, but hers is SO thick and fluffy... And now it's summer and I don't want her sweating during every nap! It's sweet that she loves something already. (besides her brothers and dad!)

I have also decided that this age of Layla's is my favorite. She is on the verge of crawling, but still stuck in one spot. Yet she is so interested in everything. This is why she eats from a bottle during the day-feedings. She can't miss one thing!

I feel like I have truly been able to enjoy Layla's baby-hood. I am home full time, and the boys have been so responsible about being good during those times I need to be with Layla. (well, for the most part!) I almost feel like I am experiencing things for the first time, again, but in a much more relaxed way. Well, she is the 3rd.

(no, I am not a pro, so don't suggest having more just because it's been a good run)

So many changes are coming our way: scooting, crawling, cruising, walking! AAAGH! Oh, and her 1st b-day is speeding upon us. But we just love her so much and will enjoy every moment. I can honestly say she is all of our favorite girl ever!

What do you do...

2010-06-08T12:42:00.000-07:00

...when Bountiful Baskets gives you 21 heads of baby bok choy?

You make a yummy stir fry, of course!

(yeah, baby. Shrimp!)

Recipe here:

http://chinesefood.about.com/od/shrimprecipes/r/shrimp_stir_fry.htm

This only took me about 20 minutes last night. (with reading, and prep) Today for lunch I used the rest of the shrimp and mushrooms, and it took me 10 minutes! Easy.

SO YUMMY!

(this recipe only used 6 bok choy heads, then 3 for lunch... So I still have 12 heads left!)

Hiking Season is Here!

2010-06-03T19:57:00.000-07:00

We spent our Memorial Day in City Creek Canyon.

Josh was our fearless trail-leader, Layla slept on Dan's back, and Jack... well, Jack will learn to love new experiences! Even with all the little legs involved, we ended up going pretty far before deciding to turn back. (of course going down took 1/2 the time as going up!)

So, for any local mom-friends at home with other little-legged friends, I am going to try for a hike 2x each month while it's warm. Anyone is welcome, just let me know. OR, tune in for my reviews of our adventures: kid-friendly, trail condition, tips...

If you drive in City Creek Canyon, you will see this duck pond just before the turn to the small parking area that leads to the paved canyon trail. Our chosen trail was on the right of this duck pond. The boys had fun throwing rocks in the water after the hike.

(no ducks were harmed!)

We were on the lookout for any wildlife! We found beetles, ladybugs, and tons of birds. Nothing bigger... but we did have fun finding lots of deer prints.

Dan was a champ. He carried Layla and kept up the rear when Jack would lag, all while not feeling well himself. Good thing you are only as slow as your slowest hiker. We were not going fast at all!

Of course the boys' favorite part was their snack bags: Capri Suns, Goldfish crackers, Laffy Taffy. All the good stuff!

I was proud of my boys. (even sick dad!) It was such a gorgeous day and we loved being together.

Seriously, I will post on FB when and where we will go next. Let's get out there and enjoy the summer!

During the month of May...

2010-05-31T13:53:00.000-07:00

...Layla found that her toes are her favorite chew toys!

...Josh "borrowed" my camera, again.

(which now explains the white film on all pictures since then, now that I see them on screen)

...Daddy got some Layla-time in before she went to Ohio for 5 days.

...Layla met her new cousin, Owen Lee Goates. (mom's and dad's 1st nephew) She also LOVED having Grace there to giggle with, and tons of adult attention for babies only!

(aka: Camp Cousins)

...Oh, and Layla weened herself to bottles. She still nurses a couple times a day, but that's one less thing for mom to do during June!

...Josh has become obsessed with puzzles. He is really fast to. While the boys were here alone for a few days, Josh and Dad completed a 500 piece puzzle!!

And here is just a stinkin' cute video!!

And...

2010-05-26T10:42:00.000-07:00

SEA WORLD

San Diego

2010-05-25T20:21:00.000-07:00

We were SO lucky, excited, and just ready to spend a week in San Diego. Our family rented a house ON THE BEACH with Dan's mom and stepdad. (Niki & Dan Bienkowski) Dan B. is not only "Grampa Dan" but our in-house photographer!

MISSION BEACH

We spent the sunnier parts of the day playing in the sand.

(FYI, June-gloom starts in May)

By the last day, Josh finally played in the ocean with me. Jack, however, would not even cross over to the "wet" sand! But we scored in the sea shell - collecting.

Our beach baby!

SAN DIEGO ZOO

We all loved the San Diego Zoo.

Some of the wild life... that we had to leave in the park.

The other monkeys came home with us.

THE MIDWAY

Josh and Jack in the Brig. Though, this trip they didn't "earn"any time there! They were the best little travelers.

Seriously, this place is PERFECT for little boys!

WILD ANIMAL PARK

YUMMY EATS

ALL OF US

We love you Granny and Grampa Dan. Let's do it again soon!

Currently...

2010-05-22T17:51:00.001-07:00

...I am in Ohio.

Therefore, no posts yet from a fun and busy May.

Go to THIS site for VERY current pictures. (like from today)

You won't want to miss it!

THIS...

2010-04-30T17:51:00.000-07:00

...is the kind of dog we want.

(in a year or so)

What is it, you ask?

A special breed-mix of a Chihuahua and a Dachsund.

CHIWEENIE!!!

(Say the name a couple of times and tell me it isn't the CUTEST thing ever!)

Modern Family

2010-04-30T13:03:00.000-07:00

WHERE HAS THIS SHOW BEEN?

WHY HAVE I BEEN AVOIDING IT?

I am watching them on Hulu, and trying to laugh quietly since it's nap time!

Favorite line so far:

"I will always remember him as the stranger holding my baby."

Sibling Training

2010-04-26T13:48:00.001-07:00

Come to the

Montague Big-Sis/Bro Training Camp

...where our "pros" teach specialized courses in:

*helping with bathing*

Here, Oldest-Brother Josh is teaching soon-to-be Big Sis Lucy how to clean off all of the day's spit-up stains and smells.

Pictured above is Older-Brother Jack teaching a great strategy for night-time-soothing baths.

Occasionally, our staffers will allow themselves to be practiced on to give critical feedback for soon to be siblings.

Jack is quick to remind his trainees not to wrap anything around a baby's neck, even a towel after a bath.

Lucy wasn't afraid to participate!!

Layla is our baby-in-resident, and our official skill-tester. She is quick with a smile if a job is done right.

Another skill taught:

*nap time duties*

Siblings should stage a comfortable sleeping environment, which means quiet voices and toys, and only the softest of blankets.

Final skill taught:

*play/TV/snack time*

Yes, a sibling should remember to take some time for him/herself. Being an older brother or sister can be quite exhausting.

Layla gave Lucy her official OKAY as all the "babies" were well cared for during this day of training.

Good luck to Lucy in her new role!

*no real water was used during the "bath time"

*no babies or glow-worms were harmed during this training

Easter 2010

2010-04-16T13:20:00.000-07:00

Again, a bit late. You'd think I had 3 kids or something...

Due to the fact that the "Easter Bunny" did not want to wake up at 6:00 AM to hide eggs, and that maybe [she] doesn't have the best memory these days, the kids only colored 11 eggs. (we broke the 12th!)

Jack LOVED dying the eggs. "Moe, peez."

Josh also had a blast making his eggs bright.

Layla was only allowed to have these just for the picture, since we didn't need any more casualties.

From start to finish, the boys were giddy as they found all the PLASTIC eggs! It was fun to listen to them laugh about the "silly" hiding places.

Layla woke up after all the fun, but still enjoyed her own Easter basket.

Mmm. Doesn't this breakfast make your mouth water? Fresh bread with homemade strawberry jam, boiled eggs, and fresh berries with yogurt on top.

Seriously, my stomach just growled as I wrote that!

Easter night we went to the Goates' for more yummy food. I think Great-Grandpa Brent Goates was happy to be surrounded by such cute kids. (as sugar-wired as they were!)

We just can't get enough pictures of these 2!!

Despite the snow that fell that morning, we braved the outdoors for some family pictures. I secretly LOVE matching my kids clothes!!

And, finally, here is our family!! I love each of them so much. We had such a fun Easter this year.

(don't ask me what Josh is doing...)

Late 20's?!

2010-04-12T12:04:00.000-07:00

I am sad to say that I missed posting about Dan's b-day.

(It has been so busy with St. George, Easter, kids, life... )

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Dan turned 30, but is going to continue to tell everyone that he is in his "late 20s'!"

We love your silliness, example, love for the outdoors, patience, forgiving nature, laid-back attitude, and how much you love us.

Here's to the next 30 years...

Six Months Old

2010-04-09T08:54:00.000-07:00

St. George - the end

2010-04-08T20:00:00.000-07:00

Grace and Layla would like to tell you about the last little bit of their trip to St. George.

(isn't Gracie's look pretty thug?!)

We got to show off our new swimsuits when everyone decided to go swimming. Apparently, someone was making a silly face to make us laugh. Mission accomplished!

Grace: Layla, why were your lips blue?

Layla: Because it was frickin' freezing!

Grace: Hmph, I didn't notice... wimp!!

No, we DID NOT get in the hot tub! But, this was the only water that Josh and Jack would touch. I think Jack would only put his feet in, and that's it.

Later, we met up at the St. George temple.

Look at me. I am GORGEOUS!!!

(I'm not sure where Grace was, so the camera was all mine!)

You would think these guys were our body guards, with faces like that. Don't mess with Jack when he's sick and Josh without a nap...

Look boys, we can wrestle to!!

(This is Layla's mom's FAVORITE shot of the trip!)

Thanks to Aunt Jamie for taking all of these wonderful shots. It was so fun to vacation with you.

St. George - Day 2

2010-04-06T14:35:00.001-07:00

Here is what we did the next day in sunny St. George:

Josh LOVES his cousin Grace, and was having so much fun making both babies giggle.

Once the wind died down, we took lunch to the sand dunes in Snow Canyon. The response from our boys were surprising...

Josh could have stayed there FOREVER!!

Jack was less than happy, and within 10 minutes of finding a spot to sit, fell over completely asleep!! It made the hour a bit nicer for the rest of us.

(he was still pretty sick, poor guy)

Dan showed those hills what was up.

(he also brought LOTS of red sand back in all of his pockets!)

Layla is quite the fan of the hiking pack. She also fell asleep once we got there.

We are such a good looking family!!

St. George - Day 1

2010-04-01T20:33:00.000-07:00

We spent a few days escaping the cold of SLC, trying to soak up some sun in St George.

After a long drive, with amazing little travelers, some major wiggles needed to be let out!

DIXIE PARK

We braved the crazy wind and took the kids to climb on the rocks at Dixie Park. Josh was more interested in playing in the sand, which was perfect for day 2...! Poor Jack was not feeling well AT ALL, and the wind almost knocking him down put him over the edge. But they did like finding the little hidey-holes!

We also visited the tabernacle, where some beautiful water features have been added. Josh decided to jump right in!

We thought it was pretty funny to come home from a tabernacle with a soaking wet Josh, who was wrapped in mom's jacket and just wearing his undies!

Isn't that what all tourists do?

Layla was taking notes, I'm sure.

Then cousin Gracie (and Jamie and Ryan) came to join us!!

More to come later...

Chomp!

2010-03-31T14:37:00.000-07:00

This is Layla's favorite at-home toy. The other day, she was literally growling as she went at it!

Such a funny girl.

2010-03-23T11:12:00.000-07:00

I was tagged by my friend, Emily, and I always love to play!

Rules: take pictures of the following AS THEY ARE... no pre-cleaning.

**Disclaimer: I am currently renting... need I say more?

My Favorite Room:

I chose Layla's room for 2 reasons: 1) I created almost everything in it during my last trimester of her pregnancy. 2) It is the only room in the house with a light peach-ish color that totally creates a warm atmosphere. (when the sun filters through the maroon curtains) When I am holding Layla in the chair in her room, facing out and seeing all the light, blue walls, it feels like a cozy embrace. It was the EXACT feeling I wanted.

My Kitchen:

I could lie and say that I had just barely put those dishes in the sink, but to be totally honest, I usually have a couple of dishes in/around my sink. My dishwasher is tiny and I hate hand-washing dishes. Dan loves it, really, so I kinda wait for him...

My Bathroom:

I was doing laundry... hence the hanging, drying shirts.

My Laundry Room:

First of all, I am just grateful this very old house (duplex) even had washer/dryer hook-ups. This is just a cement pad in the basement. The foundation is a bit crooked, so I have to keep that heavy bin on top of the washer to prevent it from walking away!

My Favorite Shoes:

Don't these shoes just totally explain my personality? The best part: I got them for $16 at Famous... because I had a coupon!!

My Self-Portrait

While the rest of my pics were taken last night, I forgot about this picture until just now... Josh says I have a funny eye.

My Refrigerator:

Yes, we are pilers even on the fridge.

Inside my Fridge:

I have to admit that there was nothing to be "ashamed" about. I do have a 2nd blog, with major goals, to be true to. I have tons of produce, hummus, yogurt, eggs, and cheese. Yes, there is one Diet Dr. Pepper in the back!

My Closet:

As I looked at a couple of other sites who had done these pics, I notice that I really don't have a ton of clothes... Dan and I are really good at making sure we don't keep anything around that we don't EVER wear, or that doesn't fit...

What My Kids are Doing:

Sweet Layla has been sick with a cold and off-and-on fever for a couple of days. She is nicely propped up by the quilt that I made before she came... to go with the room... when I pretty much went nesting-nutty! And that cute bear-thing must be next to her face for her to nestle in to as she falls asleep.

I didn't want to get in Jack's face, since he had already woken up twice, screaming because of some nightmare. He is quite the nestler on his bottom bunk. Sometimes it seems like a cave. I would love to have a space so plush and dark.

Yep, Josh has a sticker on his head. And, he MUST have his 2 favorite (from birth) blankets in order to fall asleep. Otherwise, he visits me around 2:00 AM to look for them.

I tag: Jamie, Amanda, Alison, Barb, Larrie... and whoever else wants to play.

Tagged

2010-03-18T07:46:00.000-07:00

Mom: "Josh...?"

Josh: "It was Jack."

Mom: "Josh, Jack doesn't know how to write the letter 'A'."

Josh: "Or the letter 'Q'."

Case Solved.

(Can you read 'Josh' written going backwards on the left of the panel? Funny and incriminating!)

Going Green

2010-03-18T07:34:00.000-07:00

Happy (late) St. Patrick's Day

*green milk*

*green streamers*

*green toilet water*

*green German pancakes*

(I couldn't choose my favorite picture.)

Josh had never heard of leprechauns before, practiced and practiced the word.... but still ended up begging to "hunt for lepers" all day long!!

This was like a behind-the-scenes shot!!

5 Months

2010-03-14T19:56:00.000-07:00

"Layla Girl"

We love this girlie! She truly completes us, and it is so fun to watch her personality develop. She has come with the most patient dispositions, so much so, that at times she will be left playing in her room for 10 minutes. That's forever in baby-time!! But, really, she won't make a peep! She is often last on the totem pole, but just keeps herself entertained until it's her turn. She's perfect!

Layla loves:

*going anywhere in her carseat *bath time *sucking on her fingers, LOUDLY *playing with her toes *swinging *her hanging lion toy *anyone who givers her attention *Josh and Jack *listening to her musical play mat *grasping fingers *out-yelling her brothers

What's coming up:

*rolling from back to tummy *more solid food experiences *grabbing momma's earrings/jewelry *hiking, with Layla in the backpack *road trip to St. George *plane trips to CA and OH *more and more belly laughing